Hello my name is Lea and I'am 24. My mother went through a spinal surgery almost 3 yearago now which resulted in her becoming quadriplegic. Doctors dont know how it happened when it was a routine surgery. They said she was the first patient that this has ever happened to. She has also been through a heart, liver, and kidney transplants prior to her spinal surgery so shes been through the most, but staying as strong as she can. My younger brother and I take care if my mother 24/7 and at times we hardly get time for ourselves. I myself going through medical problems as well am trying to stay strong to take care of my mother is hard. As her children we try to make her happy as possible just like any child would love to see. But since shes bed bound and is unable to get around do to us not having accessible transportation for her handicap (wheelchair accessible vehicle and a proper reclining wheelchair for the bed wound on her sacrum, she also has been on a wound vac for that ) because we cant afford it on our budget, shes usually always in the home and she gets highly depressed. On those days I feel like im failing her because she cant enjoy life when shes still young and missing out on alot outside of these walls, we would love to get her out and about and to go see and visit family members as well and so she can company us when we go places and get to join us on family events such as christmas etc, she hasnt been able to for almost 3 years now and it makes us sad not having her presence with us, so my brother and i usually stay home and give her a comforting holiday. Also to company us to the stores or maybe even the park. I was wondering if anyone who reads this can help us so we can bring back the high spirits that we were use to seeing our mother in before what has happend to her, it will be very much appreciated. Thank you
Ps. The picture you see is my mother on her good day.